Go Ask Jo: 3/31/2021

Dear Jo,

I am a bit chubby. I guess how chubby depends on how you view weight. I am also single. I am writing because I get mixed messages about the dating scene. Some say that losing weight and getting fit is important before I venture into dating. Others stress that I will only be happy with someone who can accept and care about me as I am now. Do you have any advice, an opinion? Thanks!

Signed, Waiting

Dear Waiting,

First, don’t wait for ANYTHING in your life! Go ahead and date, do anything you are interested in, no waiting. Dating can be overwhelming and take over your life. Please don’t put all your eggs in that basket! By going out and doing the things you enjoy and are interested in, you are far more likely to meet someone who is a great match. Unless you’re interested in a body building partner, move on and enjoy.

Signed, Jo

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Dear Jo,

I think I am in love! He is tall, strong, handsome (and ohhhhhhh his biceps)…..but my best friend thinks so also! Our group of friends has talked about him, how he would be a catch. Neither my friend nor I have dated him. Do I tell her I am interested? Can you call dibs on men? I hate to miss out on those biceps!

Signed, Needy Friend

Dear Needy,

NO, you cannot call dibs on a man! Even if you could, your friendship is longer lasting than a man (no matter how firm his biceps). Tread carefully, biceps are fleeting.

Signed, Jo

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